Davis' Birth Story  

Monday, April 4, 2011

I'm not sure that the blog is the right medium for recording slightly personal information about my body and birthing a baby, but many people keep asking about it. So if you are interested in hearing about about cervixes and epidurals, please, read on. If not, this is probably where you want to stop.

After going seven days overdue, Greg and I drove to the hospital early Thursday morning for our scheduled induction. I called ahead to see if I had to fast, and the nurse said I absolutely should not fast. I was thrilled. Aside from the pain, the worst part of labor is the fasting. I was determined to eat breakfast, and have this child before lunch, so that I didn't miss a single meal. So Greg and I grabbed a delicious bagel sandwich on our way to the hospital and pulled in right at 7.

After questions, questions and more questions, my doctor finally came in and was ready to get things going. He checked me and confirmed that I was dilated to a 4. I was thrilled. It felt good to know that all the false labor I had been having was contributing to something. It was nice to know also that I was pretty much halfway there. He then proceeded to break my water. I warned him that in the past, I have been known to have a LOT of amniotic fluid. I don't think he really believed me because afterwards he compared me to a gushing river as the nurse scrambled to accommodate. I tried to warn them.

After that the nurse said that she would be back soon to start the Pitocin. Pitocin doesn't scare me. I've had Pitocin with all of my kids. But what does scare me is IV's. I have difficult veins and getting stuck several times is no picnic for me. And of course this was no exception. I had two incredibly (incredibly) painful attempts at starting it in my right arm before backup was called to start it in my left arm. Needless to say, my right arm looks like it has jest been through a war. The good thing though was that I had my husband's complete support as he napped on the sofa next to the hospital bed. To his credit, I told him if he needed to nap, better do it before the contractions start.

About 9:00 the nurse came back and started pitocin through the IV. The contractions started to become more regular, but still weren't all that painful. Our nurse, Denise, came in every half hour to up the pitocin dose until the contractions were 2-3 minutes apart. About 10:15 I called the nurse in to ask for an epidural. The contractions were not unbearable but were more than uncomfortable, but I really did not want to miss my window.

Well my nurse took one look at me and smirked. She was laughing at me. She told me that she thought I looked to happy to be ready for a epidural. If I didn't think she was such a great nurse, I might have been offended. So she said when she came back in a half hour to up the pitocin, she would order the epidural. Well as it turned out, I really progressed in the next half hour because the contractions went from uncomfortable to unbearable. I ordered the epidural and spent the time waiting breathing through each contraction. Greg was a great support (now fully awake). Once the anesthesiologist came in, I am embarrassed to say I was snippy. I stopped answering his questions and asked him just to hurry.

Once the epidural was in (around 11:30) I waited for the relief. But complete relief never came. There was one area of my pelvis that wasn't numb, so I still had to breathe through each contraction. But even with it not completely blocking the pain, it made the unbearable pain more manageable, so I was grateful for that. About noon the doctor came back to check me and said I was dilated to an 8 and that in a half hour I would start to push. We were shocked!

So true to his word, the doctor came back and said that I was indeed dilated to a 10 and was ready to push. I pushed through 3 contractions and out baby came. He had the cord wrapped around his neck, so he looked a but purply, but within a minute was screaming. Everyone commented on how big he was and after they weighed him, it was confirmed that I had just birthed a 8 pound 15 ounce baby. I was so happy. Greg was so proud. There are few moments in life that compare to the feeling of a baby that is just minutes old that was just inside you, that you are meeting for the first time. I was emotional.

And in case you were wondering, I delivered just in time for lunch.

We are so happy to have this little man in our family. The boys have just doted on him and he has been pretty good natured. Each day gets better and better and Davis even blessed us with a 5 hour stretch of sleep last night. Hopefully this is a trend that will continue!

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10 Validations of my effort: to “ Davis' Birth Story ”

  • Laura
    April 4, 2011 at 9:06 PM  

    Way to go! So sorry the epidural wasn't the best.

  • Angela and Mike
    April 4, 2011 at 10:28 PM  

    5 hour stretch? Way to go Davis! Thanks for the birth story, I like reading them. I can't believe your induction went so fast. Way to not even miss a meal! I can't wait to meet Davis. He is so cute!

  • Sharon
    April 4, 2011 at 10:39 PM  

    Thanks for sharing the story. Loved Greg's support of your IV by sleeping on the couch. Hopefully Davis will continue his good sleeping habits!

  • Barlow Fam
    April 5, 2011 at 5:48 AM  

    I love birth stories, I love that they're not mine any more. :) I got quite snippy with Brooklyn as the anesthesiologist took FOREVER to get it in and I was transitioning (actually had probably missed my window but it was going so fast I don't think they realized it). We're so glad he's here and can't wait to see all the pics and hear the stories. Oh, and I'm so glad you got lunch! :)

  • Chanell
    April 5, 2011 at 9:22 AM  

    Congratulations! I am of the opinion that nurses shouldn't try to make jokes to laboring mothers. The "You look too happy to get an epidural" joke would have really tempted me to punch the nurse in the face.
    And I'm sure Davis will be an angel child. Already so accomodating- breakfast AND lunch. What a champ. Annie made me miss about five meals- and it all makes so much sense now. :)
    I am sooo happy for you guys!

  • hilary w
    April 5, 2011 at 1:47 PM  

    What a great story! I can't believe how fast your labor went! And you didn't even miss a meal! :) I'm so happy everything went so smoothly. Now we need some more pictures!

  • =0)jessica
    April 5, 2011 at 3:56 PM  

    long-time lurking reader, first time poster. i wanted to tell you that the new baby is *gorgeous* & you are a trooper for putting up with that nurse! i'm a nurse, i don't work L&D but when my pt tells me they need pain medication unless there is something fishy going on, they get it. i'm not the one in pain so what do i know about how they're feeling?? you are a very forgiving laboring mom... :)

    congrats also to the new big brother, it's kinda tough when you aren't the little one anymore.
    peace & blessings to you.

  • stacy
    April 5, 2011 at 7:38 PM  

    I love the gushing fluid part. I had that too. I remember my doctor yelling at the nurse to get more towels. We watched it flood right off the bed and all over the floor! The best part? They were so worried about somebody slipping they worked really hard to clean up the floor. 30 minutes later I asked if I could have a dry pad and sheets for the bed. =)

  • mrs. barlow
    April 6, 2011 at 9:49 PM  

    baby! so glad you are doing well.

  • Michelle
    April 7, 2011 at 11:24 AM  

    What a wonderful birth story! You are a great writer! Congrats to you guys. Your new little one is a cutie!